10 Things To Do In Your Swimsuit This Summer

Subtitle: for when you don’t live near the ocean or have a pool

I participated in an Influencer Activation on behalf of Millennial Central for Figleaves.com. I received product samples to facilitate my review as well as a promotional item to thank me for my participation. As always, opinions are my own. If you’d like to know more about my policies when doing these types of posts, check out my policies page!

You all know that I love me a cute bikini. ๐Ÿ˜‰ When I received the following one from Figleaves a month ago, I was super stoked. It came right before a trip to Florida for a wedding. I had plans to spend some time on the beach wearing it or even the pool at the hotel, but those plans didn’t happen because it rained a majority of the time we were there. Boo.

Here in the grand ol’ Midwest, we aren’t blessed with nice beaches or the ocean. So, there won’t be any sandy fun for me unless we take a flight somewhere. My parents have a pool, but just moved and won’t be setting it up this year. Basically, I have nowhere to wear my bikini.

This is a tragedy. Look at this cute bikini!

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Besides being cute, it is super comfortable! Over at Figleaves, they offer over 200+ designers in not only swimwear, but lingerie as well. They have sizes available for all body types with cup sizes from AA-GG. Now, we all know how hard it can be to find a swimsuit to fit properly! I ordered my top in my bra size and my bottom in the size recommended by their sizing chart and I will say it runs true to size!

Go check them out and order something for yourself to look good in this summer! Be sure to use the code LOVE2014 to get 10% off until June 15th! Hopefully you’ll have a beach or pool to rock your swimsuit at, but if you don’t, here are 10 things to do in your swimsuit this summer!

1) Post a picture of you in the suit on the internet and go viral all over the world!

2) Have a fun photo shoot in your driveway! (Mr. B is my photographer and isn’t for hire. ๐Ÿ˜‰ )

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3) Fill your bathtub up with water and lay in it!

4) Sit at your computer and look up pictures of the beach pretending you are there!

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5) Sit on your porch drinking a pina colada in your suit

6) Do some outdoor grilling!

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7) Do your housecleaning in it, that could make your significant other happy. ๐Ÿ˜‰

8) Have a water balloon fight!

#latergram Our #sundayfunday ended with a water balloon fight. #funtimes

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9) Buy a sandbox and make your own beach! Plant a lawn chair and get some sun!

10) Workout in your swimsuit! I’m thinking yoga in my bikini will be happening!

10 Thing To Do In Your Swimsuit This Summer by Brooke: Not On a Diet #MC #Sponsored

Do you have the luxury of living near a beach? Or own a pool?
If not, what will you be doing in your swimsuit this Summer?

Why I Refused to Put a Shirt on For Shape

A week or so ago Shape magazine online reached out to me. They wanted to do success story feature on their site about me. Being someone who enjoys putting herself out there and finding new ways to reach people, I agreed.

We set up a time for an interview and I sent them the following after picture to include.

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The reporter got back to me and said: Thank you! These should work but I’ll let you know if my editor needs anything else. Talk to you soon!

We did the phone interview and chatted for about a half hour about my journey, my weight loss tips, and other things. She was super friendly and I enjoyed talking to her. She let me know that she would work on my piece and get back to me as soon as she knew when it would be published. I figured I’d here back in the next week or so, when only a couple of days later, I got the following email:

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Really? Have you logged on to Shape’s website lately? You can find MANY women in bikinis on the site.

I’m not going to lie, I was absolutely furious with the email and while I wanted to call them every name in the book and tell them how they were wrong. My inner lady (and help of Emily) spoke up and conducted a response:

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I awaited a reply and received the following the next day:

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Again, not happy about it. I was to be a part of their Success Stories feature on the website, where there are women in bikinis. Why all of the sudden was it ‘their policy’?

I sent another email stating the following:

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A few hours later I received a phone call from the woman who interviewed me. She explained that she was just the ‘in-between’ person between Shape and I, and that she had not meant to offend me in any way. She then went on to say that this had nothing to do with me and not wanting to celebrate women’s bodies. That they had just stated it was their policy now to include fully clothed photos for the feature.

She then asked me to reconsider my choice to no longer be featured, that my story is great and I would get a lot of exposure from it. I told her that the exposure wasn’t worth it to me, that I’m an honest person and I didn’t feel like the story was letting me be honest if I couldn’t share that photo. I told her that if their policy was to have fully clothed people, then they needed to do that with the rest of the site as well. She said she understood and that was that.

The whole thing still really frustrates me because I don’t feel like my body was given the same respect as others on their site. Why all of the sudden is it their policy to have fully clothed people? The reporter stated that she wasn’t sure if someone had complained about the previous photos to Shape or not. But in my eyes if someone is complaining about them featuring women in bikinis, then again they shouldn’t have them anywhere on the site.

If anything, the should want my picture on their site. My body is real, not photoshopped or hidden because I feel like I should be ashamed. This is a body after losing 172 pounds, a body that has done amazing things, and looks AMAZING in a freaking bikini.

This is the type of body they should have featured because it can give people hope. Hope that they can lose weight healthfully and even if they don’t end up with airbrushed abs of steel, they’re gorgeous and shouldn’t be ashamed of whatever imperfection they believe they have.

Women today are exposed SO MUCH to what society sees as the ideal body. The perfect hourglass shape with no arm flab, a thigh gap, full lips, perfect breasts, and a flat tummy. We believe from the time we are little girls that to be beautiful we must have these things. If we’re not the ideal beautiful, then we should be ashamed and not feel like we are good enough.

I spent MANY years hating and hiding a body I was ashamed of because it wasn’t society’s ideal of beautiful. Being asked to send a photo of myself with a shirt on made me feel like I again should be ashamed of my body. That since I have the loose skin, I shouldn’t be in a bikini.

I wasn’t willing to do that though. I’ve always been real and honest with you guys around here. That’s what I do.

If I couldn’t have the picture of me in my bikini to go along with my story, then it wasn’t MY story. The story I wanted to tell and shout out to the world, not their ideal story. So, if I couldn’t tell it my way, then they weren’t going to be able to tell it at all.

I was raised to stand up for what I believe in and I believe that if a website posts pictures of women in bikinis, then I should be given that same right. I wasn’t given that, so I decided to decline. Like I said before, the exposure I would have gotten wasn’t worth it to me.

Nothing is worth compromising my beliefs.

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Since this has all happened, Shape and I came to a resolution, which you can read about here!